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7 Magical “Chase Me” Texts He Can’t Resist

Posted on October 18, 2022

Are you hoping that the guy you like will chase you? Sending a guy the RIGHT flirty text messages captures his attention and position you as a woman of high-value. These are the most enticing 😉flirting messages and their corresponding replies that any man would like to engage in. The right combination of texts may even prompt him to ask you out.

1. It’s official, we can’t be friends any longer!

This pleasant and flirtatious text can help you capture his attention and have him thinking about what you really mean. He will be so curious and want to text you back. Make sure that your response is 🤸‍♀️playful just like the exclamation mark suggested. “I saw you eat hot dogs with mustand instead of ketchup on your story. How dare you sir…”

2. It seems we both REALLY like each other. What are you going to do about it?

One of the most important things to remember about how to make him chase you through text is that men admire confidence. This message is great because it is bold and allows your confidence to shine through, BUT he is challenged to chase and take action. 

3. It's a good thing we are coworkers/ live far apart/are simply pals because you and I would be trouble.

If we all matched with people who were perfect for us, there wouldn’t be so much fuss over love – and how boring would that be! All great love stories show the couple overcoming a great obstacle. 

There’s a reason nothing can happen between the two of you (even if it’s a completely fictitious one you made up for the sake of this message), which builds desire because it’s a way of telling someone they can’t do something: “I can’t?! Then by all means I’ll have to.”

This message breeds mystery and FOMO (fear of missing out). Now all you need to do is sit back and let his imagination run wild.

4. Just in case he asks, “What are you up to right now?”

Respond with, “Just getting ready to take a 🧖‍♀️shower before heading out with some friends. What are YOU up to?”

(Quick disclaimer: Do not use with someone who has only recently begun texting you since he may interpret this as an invitation to become sexually involved too early.)

The typical response to this question (which is, I must say, a pretty uninspired text subject) is another piece of similarly dull text.

If you send this to him, he’ll have a picture in his brain of what you’re like without being turned off by anything too sexual. What you say to him will make him think about you in a way that will make him want to be with you even more than before.

When you fire the question back at him, be sure to put the emphasis on the word “YOU” to add some levity to the message.

5. You know what’s better than texts or calls? A quiet dinner.

You have to be easily captured if you want him to give chase. The message sent here is concise and to the point. You’re basically communicating to him that you want to take things further with him as well as the fact that he should make the first move and ask you out. 🍱

6. I probably shouldn't tell you this, but do you know what makes you so irresistible to me?

Get ready for a speedy reply because this a text that no man can resist finding out the response too. Without going overboard, it manages to be both intriguing and flattering. It’s a blatant signal of your interest in him.

7. I wish you were here right now.

Send this when you are having a good time with your friends or are simply doing something you think he would love, such as hiking in the outdoors, taking in a stunning view 🌇, or enjoying a concert.

Statements have great power. The best thing about this text is that you aren’t even inviting the person to join you. You’ve just demonstrated that you are considering him in a lighthearted situation (which is also an inbuilt compliment).

I love how unclear this message is at first. Since you haven’t actually mentioned where you are or what you are doing, there is already a strong sense of fascination and wonder. You can always share a photo of what you are viewing to explain in a follow-up message a minute or two later.

You don’t have to be in the photo; just tell him where you are. He might have initiated this by asking where you are by the time you send it, but it doesn’t matter if he doesn’t.

So there you have it; 7 magical texts to send to make him chase you. You’ll connect with him emotionally and learn more about him. And unquestionably continue to occupy his thoughts day and night.

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