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How I Learned to Make Any Man Chase Me – My Personal Story
Posted on December 1, 2022
Before my partner, I was a sensitive, prickly desert cactus 🌵that pretended to not need anything from a man. I was hard on the outside and a soft mess on the inside.
Why did I become obsessed with learning on how to cultivate abundant love?
I didn’t know how to set boundaries with a man, so I ended up with avoidant men who gaslit me and made me feel like I was the inadequate one.
Coming from a divorced family, I sought to control and manipulate others so that I could be safe. I equated control with numbing my emotions, which was necessary for survival and protecting oneself.
Growing up, I didn’t have many examples of a healthy, loving, committed relationship. The only thing that I knew was that life was tumultuous, and to survive, I needed to be hyper-aware and tough. Living in an eat or be eaten the world, I stuffed down my emotions and focused on trying to feel safe any way I could.
My romantic relationships mirrored a repetitive rollercoaster of feast and famine, abundance and scarcity.
What I didn't do to "get" love 🙅♀️
- I didn’t buy new makeup, clothing, or jewelry to be prettier.
- I didn’t get new boobs, a nose job, or liposuction.
- I didn’t buy the latest skinny tea, diet pills, or start a new workout routine.
- I didn’t listen to more relationship podcasts where women would just go on and on trash-talking men.
- I didn’t take advice from social media influencers who didn’t also all represent the type of person I would want to be with.
- I didn’t read online articles about the latest tips and tricks to arouse him in bed.
- I didn’t consult my girlfriends about my relationships to get the same kind of advice that always landed me back in the same place
What I did to cultivate love within myself and with a partner 👩❤️💋👨
At my wit’s end, I spent money on every self-help book, and online dating course, and I became voracious – insatiable, really…. I consumed everything (books, peer-reviewed research studies, ethnographic studies, etc.) I could on relationships and the behavioral differences between men and women.
I went back to my Cognitive Neuroscience education and my experiences coaching men in neurolinguistic programming (NLP) to help them meet women. That’s right, I used to consult with 3 different private companies in Los Angeles that taught men who didn’t have social skills how to interact with and win over women.
At the time, I was the foremost expert on the entire body of published research surrounding neurolinguistic programming and its practical application. I used my neuroscience background to dive back into the application of hypnosis and NLP to treat trauma and manifest not only your ideal self but also your ideal loving relationship.
I now live in a generous world that is absolutely abundant with eligible, dashing, handsome, wealthy, riveting men who want to court me, provide for me, and love me. Men began tripping over themselves to set up another date with me.
They hung on my every word and invented new and exciting ways to court me. Men have taken me on cool dates like eating at Michelin Star restaurants, glass-blowing classes, private windsurfing lessons, and international trips. Men wrote me love letters and poems and sketched pictures. Men actively planned a future that included me. Men bought me gifts like flowers, clothing, and jewelry.
Then I had my pick of the litter. My partner is more doting, more affirming, more caring, more communicative, sexier, more loving, braver, more handsome, funnier, and more healed than anyone I’ve ever had the privilege of knowing. He is truly the man beyond my dreams, beyond what I could’ve imagined ever asking the universe for.
I think he’s the one, but you know what, if he isn’t the one, WOW how much better is the next man going to be!
Want all of my years of research and consulting secrets? 📚
I wrote this book for me and you. I wrote it for me because old habits take practice to overcome. Sometimes my brain wants to slide back into old patterns, so I developed method practies and writing exercises to bring my brain back to the path of abundance in love. I wrote this for you because I don’t want any woman to have to go through what I went through. It was absolutely brutal and why suffer when you don’t have to?
I’m going to hold your hand and teach you the real tools and secrets that you can implement immediately right now to get results. Time and again, I heard back from clients, and I’ve seen with my own eyes how practicing these tools, you’ll see your man change overnight.
You’ll experience more romance, more intimacy, and more affection.
He’ll call and text you more. He’ll make plans for fun dates and rendezvous. He’ll chase you and be intrigued by you. He’ll want to know more about you and how you’re feeling. He’ll take initiative to do things for you to be your hero.
All of the negative feelings, anxiety, neglect, and fighting will dissipate. You will be restored to your 👸 queendom to be again blissfully adored and worshiped. These tools are not about tricky manipulations 🃏 or playing games 🎮.
You’ll just be learning to give him exactly what he wants, which will inspire him to give you what you want. When you open yourself up to the feminine energy of receiving (instead of giving), the affection and love that you desire will naturally, effortlessly flow to you. Receiving expressive and devoted love is your feminine birthright – claim it now!
