Is He Playing You? Want To Know How To Tell? Here’s How You Can Find Out And Reign Him Back
Posted on October 18, 2022
Some men can be EXPERT manipulators. If you’ve ever been in a scenario with a guy and felt that he wasn’t being completely honest with you, here’s what it might look like: He’s all over you one week, then disappears from your life the following. Also known as a 🔥🧊Hot & Cold Man.
I’ve been considered by my of my 🎭theater peers an excellent actor, and I’ve still been fooled by these men
You can’t stand him because he’s both hot and cold at once. And to top it all off, you’re baffled! 😵💫
Many of us have found ourselves in situations when we wish we could “go away” from the current scenario in order to clear our heads, but we can’t stop loving our partner or even think of falling in love with someone else.
I’ve been here. At the same time that I yearned to feel “connected” to a man, I was also desperate to get away from him.
Trying to reason my way through it was a complete waste of time for me. I was completely immobilized. Watching him behaving this way, I would find a way to justify his actions even if we weren’t even “together.”
What was unfolding in front of my eyes was something I couldn’t, wouldn’t, or wouldn’t allow myself to accept. 🙈
Look at things from a different perspective…
It all stemmed from the fact that the “relationship” never existed in the first place! It was all a lie.
That’s what I’d gotten myself into with this guy, and I believed that was what love was all about. I thought that a relationship in which I wasn’t receiving loved, in which I had to 👷♀️ work hard to get liked, was the only one.
As a result, many of us are taught that love equals suffering or that love equals rejection without even knowing it. 👯 Women are related in nature. This is our inescapable biological wiring! Our bodies are hardwired to seek out ‘connections,’ even if they result in pain or rejection because that is the only way we can truly understand what it means to experience ‘love.’
That kind of “love” is also ☣️ toxic and completely unsatisfying.
Men know about other men, but hardly anything about any women…
Make sure you talk about your relationship before you have sex if sex is important to you as it is to most women. 💋
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If there are “no strings attached,” he won’t think of you as a priceless gift he can’t bear to part with. He won’t think twice about continuing to have sex with you and enjoying his freedom and your companionship even if you ask him to commit.
Quite the contrary, HE should aim for YOU as his 🏆 prize. As a result, a paradigm change is necessary. You can’t keep chasing after him, trying to “get” him to want more from you with your mind, emotions, and body.
Conveying the specifics about your values and desires positions you as the prize that HE gets the opportunity to pursue.
Start being honest with yourself about what you want instead of focusing on him, what he wants, or having sex with him every time he texts.
🪢 Emotional connection is, after all, what we, as women, crave the most. That’s the bedrock of any long-term partnership.
There are two pieces to the 🧩 puzzle: the man who values sex and the woman that values emotional connection. This is a recipe for a wonderful relationship when they are put together!
Finally, prioritize yourself…
When you put yourself first in your dating life, you’ll find that you’re attracted to better-quality partners. Better men who actually care about your well-being. As soon as you understand how 🧟 gross they make you feel, you’ll stroll right by the guys who are just looking to have a good time.
You’ll learn how to properly honor yourself and articulate your wants in a way that men find tremendously beautiful in my 💌 FREE Feminine Energy Newsletter, which I provide to you as a method to RAISE your self-esteem.
I’m here to reassure you that this is the last time you’ll be burned in the same way. Sign up for my free Feminine Energy newsletter to learn how to unleash your 🔥💃 feminine power and attract just the RIGHT sort of guys to you!