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Is the Passion Gone? Rekindle 🎇 Sparks in Your Relationship or Marriage

Posted on October 18, 2022

Falling in love can pretty much feel like you’re getting a new toy. It’s shiny, with no flaws, and you kind of want to have it around all the time. It’s exciting and, for a while, it’s the only thing you think about.

Staying in love, on the other hand, is a completely different thing. And suddenly, “till death do us part” seems like a really, really long time. A few years with the same boyfriend or girlfriend can potentially start to feel boring, and all kinds of doubts crowd into your mind.

But don’t worry—I had the chance to talk to relationship experts who say it’s very natural for a long-term relationship to feel like it’s burning out and even to wonder whether it’s time to call it quits. And even better: There is still hope if you worry that the

flames in your relationship are dying out.

So, to help you rekindle your relationship, here are a few pointers.

Revisit the Beginning.

Even while you can’t count on that fuzzy feeling to remain forever, you can go back to the spots where the 🦋 butterflies first happened. According to experts, the early phases of a relationship are characterized by intense sensations of infatuation, fantasies, and desire.

If you can return to the place where you met, got engaged, or just had your best memories, this can help reawaken those emotions and bring the enthusiasm back. Going somewhere you have wonderful memories together can serve as a reminder that you two are still interesting individuals who enjoy one another. Occasionally, a sensory kick in the butt is all it takes to rekindle a smoldering spark.

Talk about it.

💐 Flowers, 🎷 music, and 🍫 chocolate are all beautiful romantic gestures, but if one partner in the relationship harbors some animosity, perhaps because they weren’t supported that day with the kids, then any gift loses its meaning. The stronger the connection and the closer you feel to your partner, the simpler it is to get over your differences.

A strong foundation reduces volatility. Dealing with your problems can ease any tension or stress and facilitate conversation, which will facilitate the reception of romantic ideas.

Get Physical 🤼

According to a study by the University of Chicago, Canada, Austria, the United States, and Spain were among the countries in the world with the highest levels of sexual satisfaction. The study also pointed out that sex is extremely essential to roughly half of men and one-third of women in Western societies, and couples with equal partners are more likely to have sexual practices that satisfy both partners’ needs.

What does all of this mean for romance, then? While some wooing might make a person’s heart race, sex is a special connection that serves to uphold and fortify a relationship.

Be Thankful for your Relationship

Okay, we couldn’t help it. The season of giving thanks is always now. There is an old saying that says that energy follows attention, which is both true and based on physics. What you concentrate on grows in your life and mind.

Maybe you could try to list the qualities and traits of your partner for which you are grateful.

Even reading over your list of appreciation on a daily basis is beneficial.

Giving your partner a copy of your gratitude list as a holiday gift is also nice. This list might even be well-liked by your partner, making it the most appealing aspect of the holidays.

Make Relationships Full of Surprises

It is lovely to do something nice for your partner, and it is always nice to be thought of. Take turns setting up dates for each other once a month. Simply instruct your spouse in appropriate attire, from casual to formal. A surprise date will definitely increase the desire and mystery in your relationship.

I also advise setting up dates with each other. But a little piece of advice! Don’t take your companion to a bar to watch a game if you detest 🏈 football while they are obsessed with it. It will feel unnatural, and neither of you will enjoy the experience as you hoped. Try to complement your strengths with those of your partner instead.

Take Time Apart

When you initially started dating, do you remember the first time you saw your date across the room? Distance creates passion and anticipation, which ultimately makes the heart grow fonder.

Perhaps you can try a little game next time you’re together. Sit on opposite sides of the bar. You can never anticipate the emotions you’ll arouse. Distance can help a relationship get back on track, but going the extra mile and spending time apart might do much more. (Did someone mention a girls’ trip?)

We need to occasionally spend some time away from our partners to genuinely miss them and to realize what is waiting for us at home.

Renew your relationship! If you do, you’ll both reap the benefits of greater happiness and love, as well as a substantial relationship.

If you’re struggling in your relationship, I’m here to help. Just sign up for my 💌 newsletter and learn how you can rebuild trust and deeply connect with your partner once again.