ATTRACTION & COMMITMENT
Pique His Interest and Make Him Fall in Love All Over Again
Posted on October 18, 2022
It made me 🤢 sick to my stomach to feel like I was competing with other women when I was “between” men and either had my eye on a man, or there was no man around.
But through all those experiences, I didn’t stop to think if there were other ways I could get what I wanted…
Why was I trying to please them, they should be trying to please me. I am the 🏆prize. This is how women have viewed themselves for centuries. That is why there were entire systems for decorum in courting a lady 🌹in many countries and even within the 🦚animal kingdom.
We see it with male penguins🐧 who search endlessly for the perfect 🪨pebble to give to his lifelong betrothed partner.
It all starts with your rock-solid self-esteem and knowing what you deserve…
It's also a breeze and a time-saver.
Here’s a quote from one of them: – “I know it sounds corny but after meeting you I’ve wanted to step up my game a little and do more.” – H May 13th, 2022
I don’t focus on them, which allows them to focus on me. I simply focus on what I want for MYSELF, not what I want them to do.
When I focused on what I didn’t want and what he’s failing to do, I got more of it. YI felt isolated, neglected, and undesirable. 😢
Everything changed the instant I flipped the switch in my head. And the good news is that it's something that anyone can do.
So, if you catch yourself dwelling on what you don’t have, try to shift your focus.🔍🔎
Stop thinking of him as a “go-to” source of love to fill your cup 🥤. Do not let him become your ⛲🤍Fountain Of Love, and do not go to him to fill your bowl with his love.
⛲Fountains don’t water other things or people; they water themselves. The Fountain Of Love is an image you can use to visualize yourself as a self-loving, self-cared-for person.
The pain of not getting what you desire from your man will be relieved by this. Also, he’ll be able to tell that you’re no longer dependent on his affections for your happiness.
He’ll finally notice that you’re your own source of love
You'll have another surprise when you start doing less, and he starts doing more.
You’ll be surprised by how good you’ll feel about yourself, not just about him. You feel better about yourself when you look at the Fountain image. As your self-esteem rises, so does your level of self-confidence. 👠
And he’ll heed your confidence, even if you don’t accomplish anything!
It’s a wonderful feeling to have a meaningful connection with a man, especially one that happens so rapidly you’re taken aback. Because that’s what I hope for you!
In this fast-paced environment, we’ve ‘lost’ how to be ourselves as women. ♀️
Being your own ⛲Fountain will become second nature as you practice, and before you know it, you’ll have forgotten how difficult it was to start!
Despite everything we’ve been taught, it’s not nearly as difficult as we thought to keep a guy interested. In the end, you’ll be the one who decides which men can stay or go. Even if you are already married, you will regain the strong sense of comfort and confidence you felt on the day of his proposal to you.
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