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Stop Overanalyzing Your Relationships. Start Identifying The Right Man

Posted on October 18, 2022

How much time and effort do you put into figuring out how a man feels about you? In this article, we’ll discuss why it’s working against you and what you can do instead to not only find the ideal man but also make yourself more appealing to him.

Women are frequently overly concerned with understanding what a man thinks 🤔 or feels about us. We want to be closer to him and believe that we may do this by spending more and more of our attention on him. However, this might work against you and potentially get in the way of finding 👫love…

How 🔬 analyzing your man affects you

You will feel more uneasy if you over-analyze a man and your relationship with him. You begin to pin all of your hopes and goals on this one individual, possibly before you know much about him. Gradually, all of the things that were important to you before — your 👯friends and 🏑hobbies outside of him – begin to fade away.

And when these things go, your sense of self goes with them. Consider this: if he becomes the focus of your universe, you are no longer the center 🎯. As you become aware of this, you begin to worry that you may lose him. So you tighten your grip and examine him more closely, hoping for signs that you’re not pushing him away. Unfortunately, this is typically the case.

How analyzing your man pushes him away

He’ll be turned off if he gets the impression that you care so much about his feelings for you. At first, he was drawn to you because you had a life outside of him. He admired the fact that you took ownership of your well-being and were willing to take responsibility for it. The problem is that once he realizes that you’re relying on him to make you happy, he becomes overwhelmed 🥴. In this situation, men tend to withdraw. He can’t bear the thought of letting you down; therefore, he begins to pull awayand  loses interest in pleasing you because he doesn’t believe that he can win.

If you spend all your time thinking about how distant he is or dissecting him, you are essentially closing yourself off from any chance of developing a relationship with him. By focusing on what he thinks and feels, you’re producing feelings of insecurity and desperation. Where the only thing that matters is how you feel about yourself in his presence is the only thing that matters.

Connecting with his heart 💞

Not whether he likes you, but how you feel about yourself when you’re in his presence. True connection is formed when you feel wonderful about yourself when you’re with him — if you are attractive, amazing, smart, and happy. 

Analyzing anything is unnecessary. A man who makes you feel insecure and obsessive about him may not be the right one for you. It makes no difference what he thinks at all!

Hence, the most important thing for you to consider is whether or not you enjoy your current self in his company.

What’s more, a man can only feel at ease with you if he’s comfortable with himself. 🧘

One of the most important things you can do to increase your chances of meeting the perfect man is to boost your self-esteem beforehand. Be kind to yourself, your family, and the things that bring you joy. When you find the proper man, you’ll find love.

I’ve created simple tools that you can use anywhere to boost your self-esteem and, as a result, increase the kind of guys you attract and the quality of your interactions with them. 

Subscribe to my free 💌love e-newsletter to find out what they are. For the first time in your life, you’ll learn how to finally establish a long-lasting, intimate relationship with the man who is right for you.

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