FEATURED LOVE ARTICLE
The Do’s And Don’ts Of Commitment
Posted on October 18, 2022
While that initial spark is all it takes for a man to ask you out and desire you sexually, there must be something more for him to want to 💍commit to you.
Why does anyone commit to anything? There needs to be a sense of value and and sense of urgency. He must feel compelled to CLAIM you in as his own. 👫
Wouldn’t it be better if you could inspire that feeling in him so that he is the one asking you for a commitment?
You can. You only if you follow these steps:
To make matters worse, he’ll begin to believe that you’re trying to manipulate him. He is truly unable to express his true feelings because of your reasoning. In a romantic relationship, that’s the last impression you want to give.
When a man believes he can bring you joy by being authentic and open with you, he’s in love. You’re making him feel bad and preventing him from connecting with your feelings and heart by rejecting those parts of him.
There is no persuasion necessary. You simply state your desires and expect them to be fulfilled. You state your boundaries and expect them to be respected.
Instead of persuading him to commit, talk about your hopes and aspirations for the future. For example, “I feel happy spending time with you. I don’t want to put pressure on the relationship. I know I want to be married and have a family of my own. What do you think?”
Finding out what you want in a relationship is important for dating. This is impossible if you close yourself off to other men before you have the level of commitment you want. The more people you meet and interact with, the better your chances of finding a truly perfect match.
Your 🌏 world does not revolve around one man, and this is something you avoid doing as well. In case it wasn’t painfully obvious before, your first obligation should be to yourself.
As you can see from this example, a 👄🔥💃 woman who loves him but doesn’t need him can make any man want her all to himself. As soon as he realizes how 🧧 fortunate he is to have you, he’ll be compelled to seal the deal before any other suitors get there.
Commitment is an emotional process that men and women go through differently. Sign up for my newsletter to learn how men determine if a woman is “the one” and how to have a healthy relationship.