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The Do’s And Don’ts Of Commitment
Posted on October 18, 2022
Do you know how to get a man to want to commit to you? These five relationship rules will help you learn how to create that “you’re the only woman I want” feeling in your relationship.
While that initial spark is all it takes for a man to ask you out and desire you sexually, there must be something more for him to want to 💍commit to you.
Why does anyone commit to anything? There needs to be a sense of value and and sense of urgency. He must feel compelled to CLAIM you in as his own. 👫
Wouldn’t it be better if you could inspire that feeling in him so that he is the one asking you for a commitment?
You can. You only if you follow these steps:
- DON'T bring up the subject of "commitment" over and over again
We all want to know what he thinks when we feel anxious or worried about the future of our relationship.
As for having a conversation about commitment, he’ll only dig in his heels and retreat if he’s already on the verge of committing to you on his own when you try to pressure him into it. So, refrain from bringing it up even if you’re dying to find out what’s on his mind.
- DON’T try to persuade him.
To make matters worse, he’ll begin to believe that you’re trying to manipulate him. He is truly unable to express his true feelings because of your reasoning. In a romantic relationship, that’s the last impression you want to give.
When a man believes he can bring you joy by being authentic and open with you, he’s in love. You’re making him feel bad and preventing him from connecting with your feelings and heart by rejecting those parts of him.
There is no persuasion necessary. You simply state your desires and expect them to be fulfilled. You state your boundaries and expect them to be respected.
- DO share your happy thoughts and emotions.
Let him know if you’re having a good time with him! The more open you are about your emotions, the more likely he is to feel the same way about you. He’ll want more of the good stuff if it makes him happy that he’s making you happy.
It’s only natural that he’ll want to keep you in his life as you continue to build a stronger foundation of positive feelings for yourself.
- DO say what you want in life, whether he is part of it or not.
Instead of persuading him to commit, talk about your hopes and aspirations for the future. For example, “I feel happy spending time with you. I don’t want to put pressure on the relationship. I know I want to be married and have a family of my own. What do you think?”
His enthusiasm will rise if it becomes clear that your primary focus is your own well-being and your goals. He’ll see you as a high-value commodity, and he’ll be compelled to pursue you.
- DO say what you want in life, whether he is part of it or not.
Finding out what you want in a relationship is important for dating. This is impossible if you close yourself off to other men before you have the level of commitment you want. The more people you meet and interact with, the better your chances of finding a truly perfect match.
Your 🌏 world does not revolve around one man, and this is something you avoid doing as well. In case it wasn’t painfully obvious before, your first obligation should be to yourself.
As you can see from this example, a 👄🔥💃 woman who loves him but doesn’t need him can make any man want her all to himself. As soon as he realizes how 🧧 fortunate he is to have you, he’ll be compelled to seal the deal before any other suitors get there.
Commitment is an emotional process that men and women go through differently. Sign up for my newsletter to learn how men determine if a woman is “the one” and how to have a healthy relationship.
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